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Okay, I really need you to wish me luck

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moomina · 15/11/2004 18:41

Have got university interview for midwifery degree tomorrow. To say I am bricking it would be vulgar, yet accurate. Don't think I've prepared enough. Everyone else is faaaaar more qualified than me. And it's suddenly dawned on me how much I want this.

Aaaaargh.

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Yorkiegirl · 15/11/2004 18:43

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tammybear · 15/11/2004 18:46

Good luck!!!

moomina · 15/11/2004 19:00

Thanks guys.

Do you think it would be really cheeky to use the young mum's breastfeeding thread as a discussion point?

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tiredemma · 15/11/2004 20:13

oh good luck moomina! make sure you let us know how it goes, i think it would be great to use the breastfeeding discussion in your interview.
keep us posted! which uni is it at?

ScummyMummy · 15/11/2004 20:14

Good luck. But I suspect you'll walk it- wanting it is what they're looking for.

ScummyMummy · 15/11/2004 20:16

And yes, bring in anything relevant, including mumsnet threads. Refer to them as "Internet research".

motherinferior · 15/11/2004 20:26

You'll be great, you really will. Exploit everything you can lay your mouse on - the rest of us do !

wobblyknicks · 15/11/2004 20:28

moomina - huge good luck, will keep my fingers crossed - and use as much off MN as you can!!!

MummyToSteven · 15/11/2004 20:29

oooh best of luck. agree with scummy - it will be a major point in your favour that you can show them that you soooo want to do to this

moomina · 15/11/2004 20:29

It's at Surrey. Apparently 150 interviewees for 26 places. Hmmmm. Good odds, eh?

I've had such a sh*te couple of years and really need this to happen, as a big step forward for me. But I've been talking to fellow interviewees who are breastfeeding counsellors and maternity health care assistants, etc, etc and I'm...a bookseller. I feel like I'm going to be talking out of my behind compared to them. Oh well. Deep breaths!

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moomina · 15/11/2004 20:32

This is much worse than applying to university first time around. It was all about the booze then!

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beansmum · 15/11/2004 20:33

Good Luck!!! You obviously really want it and I'm sure that's more important than any qualifications.

tiredemma · 15/11/2004 20:36

moomina dont worry about the experience bit, i have a friend who has just started UCE, 700 applicants for 50 places- no experience whatsoever, its about who you are as a person. im sure you will be fine. ill keep my fingers crossed for you all day!

motherinferior · 15/11/2004 20:38

MMM, don't just use the young mums and breastfeeding threads - take a cruise through as many threads here as you can. And you'll realise how much you already know/think/have views on midwifery. I'm quite sure you will.

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moomina · 15/11/2004 20:41

Thanks emma. I know, I just have to go in and show them how committed and enthusiastic and generally all-round fabulous I am.

Just praying ds doesn't decide to do one of his 3am specials - the 'haven't slept for 16 months' look is probably not a good one.

OK - am off now to have a glass of wine and read up on the National Services Framework Guidelines for the Maternity Services - whoopee!

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tiredemma · 15/11/2004 20:50

ha! ive just read that moomina! on sms? excellent info in there, im sure if you reel some of that off youll walk it!

moomina · 15/11/2004 21:29

Yup, good old SMS! They've been my lifesavers the last few weeks (along with MNers, of course!) Plenty of 'heated' threads and the odd bit of flouncing on there too...

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OxyMoron · 16/11/2004 15:34

Moomina, inly just seen this, but wishing you huge luck. Really hope your interview goes/went well. Let us know!

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moomina · 16/11/2004 20:27

Well, I'm back and I'm honestly not sure how I feel or how it went. The good news is that despite being told over and over again how tough it can all be and how unsocial the hours are etc etc etc, I am even more sure now that this is what I'm supposed to be doing with my life. Which is nice.

The bad news is that I have come away feeling somewhat depressed at the apparent arbitrariness of the whole selection process. It's going to sound like sour grapes but I don't care! I have no idea how I did in the interview - if they can see beneath the layers of nervous blethering then I think I managed to get the right stuff across but...I didn't say half of the stuff I wanted to and feel as if I didn't really answer some of the questions properly.

But the thing that has really pissed me off is this. We were given an English language test and a maths test, and then a short essay to write on why we wanted to enter midwifery. After our interviews we were told (confidentially) the results of the tests. I scored 100% in both the English and Maths tests - and the tutor then told me 'Well, I shouldn't really say this but your essay stood head and shoulders above the rest, too.' Fantastic, huh? Well, no, not really. The tests apparently have NO bearing whatsoever on the selection process and we only did them so they could assess our literacy/numeracy competency. Because, of course, it's impossible to get an idea of that from the lists of GCSEs, A Levels and degrees on my application form, isn't it? FFS.

I don't know. Sorry this is such a looong rant but, as my first post said, I have suddenly realised how much this means to me - and I just don't think it's going to happen. Thanks so much for all your messages though - means a lot.

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sassybabee · 04/12/2004 10:23

moomina, when do you get to find out??
my friend went for an interview for midwifery last year, and they scared the life out of her. more or less told her if she didnt get distintions on her access course she had no chance! ...so she quit her access course 2 weeks later!
i understand why they grill you so much thou!! xx

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