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So is this it now? Am I just going to cry about random things to do with my child forever?

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TotoGum · 10/12/2021 14:51

Anyone else still doing this? My son is 10 months old and I still randomly cry over various things to do with him. This morning I was listening to Christmas songs and the thought of him being all excited for Christmas in years to come made me burst into tears 🤣

So is this it now?

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Crunched · 11/12/2021 12:29

My 'baby' has just passed her driving test and I'm in floods having waved her off on her first solo drive. It never stops...

CluelessHamster · 11/12/2021 12:37

@Allaboutthefood

I had the radio on last week and this song came on that only gets played at Christmas and says "when a child is born". I was holding my 3 month old at the time, looked at her and sobbed. Sobbed when that song came on in the car a couple of days ago again!!
Youngest dd is 22 and this song always makes me well up - I'm right back in the maternity ward cuddling each of my newborns and feeling like I could achieve anything!

I nearly cried in the supermarket the other day when I saw an adorable set of newborn sleep suits which remined me of my favourite ones from when DS1 was tiny!

All4Love · 11/12/2021 12:39

And play
ABBA's "Slipping Through My Fingers"

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LynetteScavo · 11/12/2021 12:50

Yes, this is it now.

I have dropped my children off at school with them having behaved horribly all morning, and then cried driving to work because I miss them. Hmm

TuesdayRuby · 11/12/2021 12:52

Yep that’s it. You’re officially a blubbering wreck for life now. Especially when there’s any sad stories to do with kids in the media. I obviously used to always think it was sad but now it really affects me after becoming a parent.
I used to be quite tough! Bloody hormones.

Just10moreminutesplease · 11/12/2021 12:56

My LO is only 10 months too. The other night after he went to sleep, I spent the entire evening looking at photos of him and crying because he’s just so lovely!

It’s bizarre Grin.

Yiayoula · 11/12/2021 12:58

TheWayTheLightFalls - Hate to break it to you , but my son will be 44 this month and I still can’t hear Little Donkey without crying …..

Yiayoula · 11/12/2021 13:05

The one that really does for me, though, is Little Drummer Boy.
I am a snotty, gibbering mess every time !

ItsAlwaysThere · 11/12/2021 13:18

Yup.

lljkk · 11/12/2021 14:24

The maternal hormones calm down eventually, but maybe not until he's more like 10 yrs.

ponkydonkey · 11/12/2021 14:25

I cried this morning reading a thread on here about someone struggling in a postnatal ward 🤷🏼‍♀️

My teen does make me cry but not in a good way... he was adorable years ago 🤣

snackess · 11/12/2021 14:28

Yep! I cried because DS was decorating our tree & said thank you mum love it. He thinks I'm bonkers!

ancientgran · 11/12/2021 14:32

I remember crying while I was still in the hospital, baby probably 2 days old. I was crying at the thought that one day someone would shout at him. I often thought of it when I was shouting at him for something, usually being horrible to his little brother.

DramaAlpaca · 11/12/2021 14:38

@All4Love

And play ABBA's "Slipping Through My Fingers"
This song still gets me every time, and I have adult sons Grin

Slightly embarrassing admission, I used to sing along to this and change the lyrics so they were about a boy... Blush

CherryRedDMs · 11/12/2021 14:40

If you’re breastfeeding, it does get a little better when you stop.

Nyz9213 · 11/12/2021 19:58

Yeah. Mine’s 4.5 and still happens sometimes.

Techno56 · 11/12/2021 20:03

@RaoulDufysCat

It wears off. I have a fifteen year old and I definitely have not cried about anything to do with her for quite some time.
🤣
EventOfTheSeason · 11/12/2021 20:17

Yeah pretty much! I remember crying the first time my now 6 year old had tummy time, oh god she just looked so helpless lying there Blush

BrutusMcDogface · 11/12/2021 20:24

Kids singing has always made me cry, even before I became a mum. Primary teacher; the nativity was such hard work to pull together but oh my goodness was it worth it!

BrutusMcDogface · 11/12/2021 20:26

I welled up today watching my 7 year old dance. She looked so beautiful!

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