Hi, posting this mostly for reassurance, this is my first pregnancy and I overthink a lot. So far everything is going well, no infections or blood until yesterday when I found blood in vaginal discharge. I went to the obstetric assessment unit and everything is well with baby. Blood is due to small tear caused by sex ( I was so upset I’ve done something that could harm my baby, bye bye sex ). The thing that got me overthinking is that I had an examination with a speculum to find the source of the bleed. I have read before this exams pose and infection risk and now I’m feeling guilty that due to something that I caused I can potentially get an infection and affect baby. I know this sounds like I should stop overthinking but I can’t! Has anybody had a spuculum exam and everything went well?