Today tested me to my absolute limits and I've got three deep bites on my hands, two on my knuckles from my toddler who pierced the skin in multiple places. I absolutely lost it, I really screamed and called him names. I nearly crashed the car. And then look at him shaking and crying and just so little I feel evil. He has a violent temper and intentionally hurts himself and me when angry/upset and it's getting worse and I'm starting to lose it in return. I know getting angry and screaming will just make him scream more, case and point made today. How do I handle it? As horrible as it is when he goes like this I know he really is way too little to lose it with like that. I feel very ashamed and low tonight.