Paternity Query - STRESSED

[earlytwentiesmama]

Hi

Just coming here to vent/get some reassurance.

Had my dd 8 weeks ago with my ex partner. We weren't together when I got pregnant.

I'd slept with someone else 2 1/2 weeks before I "got pregnant" as well with my ex. This was on 26/12/2020 that I slept with the first man and 08/01/2020-10/01/2020 I slept with my ex.

My due date was given as the 02/10/2021 and this was never off.

All conception calculations told me it was my ex's baby and I had SO many scans in the early weeks from 6 weeks + that lined up to this, they were never off. My dd was born at 39 weeks by elective caesarean and looks just like my ex. He want s a dna test for other reasons but I'm so so worried about the result. He's spent time with her now and loves her. I never questioned I could be wrong until now and the anxiety is keeping me up all night and I haven't eaten for a couple of weeks now!

I know nothing anyone says can make this easier but just needed somewhere to say it!

It seems that you clearly got pregnant about the 8th Jan, so your baby is most likely your ex partners. But DNA will give you a definite answer.

It’s much better that this happens now, when your DD is a tiny baby, rather than in a few months or even years. It’s most likely to be your ex. But if he isn’t the father it’s much better to know that now. Your anxiety will go away once the results come in.

Only fair to your ex and daughter to get the test done sooner rather than later so you can figure out where you go from there.

Sounds like the father is mostly likely your ex, especially if she looks just like him!