5 yr olds giving kisses

[Essexmate]

I’m not sure how I should feel about this and need some help with my thoughts!

DD & friend (both 5) saying bye at school, the boy gave DD a hug, then said kiss and gave her a kiss. I don’t think DD knew how to react in the moment but when we walked away she said ‘awww’. When we were alone I explained to her that if someone tries to hug or kiss her against her will she should say “don’t (action) me please”.

Like I said I’m not sure how I should feel. Part of me doesn’t like me but the other half is thinking they are only 5.

I think it’s fine.
Just make it clear to her that you always have to ask someone before you hug or kiss them (and model that at home) and tell her she can always refuse.

but because she is shy she tends to be happy with whatever interaction she gets from her peers.

That doesn’t sound like shyness, more like low self esteem?

But I think we’re all over analysing a five year old, here. It’s not uncommon for them to kiss. If she was happy with it, I’d leave her to it - with the normal conversations about not wanting to hug/kiss anyone that she doesn’t want to, including family and school friends etc.

In previous times I wouldn't have a problem beyond checking they no they can say no thanks.

In covid times, no kissing thanks, there are germs around. Even normal colds are a right bloody nuisance with having to take people to test, wait for results etc.