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Should I hold my son back a year so he can develop more?

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Workinmom · 10/11/2021 11:28

Hello to all Parents

My son is 3 years old and has a speech delay/disorder and some concentration/focus challenges. He is an amazing, loving, smart little boy full of empathy and joy. But he really struggles with receptive and expressive language, he sometimes struggles to focus on tasks compared to his peers, and he is a bit behind with physical and fine motor development (but not too bad). We are having him assessed soon so we can get extra support. I would say he is about 10 months behind his peers with his speech/language.

He is due to start reception next year September and he will be on the younger side (as he's a June baby), but I was wondering should I hold him back a year and keep him in preschool so he can develop his language more and enter school with a bit more confidence? I'm really worried about him being bullied or ignored by other kids because they can't understand him. He's such a kind and social little boy but it's difficult for kids to understand him. But on the other hand I'm not sure if I should let him start Reception so he can be pushed to develop.

Appreciate any experiences and advice.

Thank you!

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SparrowNest · 10/11/2021 11:35

Given he’s a June baby you have the right, and it does sound like it could be helpful in this circumstance.

You could join the Flexible School Admissions for Summer Borns group on Facebook to talk to lots of people with direct experience.

Workinmom · 10/11/2021 11:50

@SparrowNest

Given he’s a June baby you have the right, and it does sound like it could be helpful in this circumstance.

You could join the Flexible School Admissions for Summer Borns group on Facebook to talk to lots of people with direct experience.

Great idea, thank you!
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Prattypitel · 10/11/2021 12:06

I would "hold him back".it is much better for him, gaining confidence.

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Chelyanne · 10/11/2021 14:13

I wouldn't. Our younger 4 have all had speech therapy when going to school and it helped them to develop.

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