Help please

[lozzy1997]

4 years ago I had my daughter and I was in a really violent relationship I was put in a mother and baby unit but my ex got in my head and I ended up having my daughter taken off me through an sgo through court also I was really really struggling with my mental health it was really bad through since then I managed to get away from my ex and have been in a really healthy happy relationship for 3 years now I have just found out I'm pregnant and midwife has told social services because they was involved in the past but I'm terrified I'm going have have another baby taken off me I have been discharged from mental health and my relationship is really amazing but I'm terrified and don't no what to do or think I can't lose a baby again even tho I'm not in that situation anymore I'm scared they will take it still

Social services don't want to take babies away from their family unless it is absolutely necessary for that baby's wellbeing. As you day, you were in a dangerous situation when you has your first child, you have done really well to get yourself in a better position now. Social services are just checking that you and baby are safe and you are not in danger as you are at risk due to your past. They will see how well you are doing and very likely leave you to it . Congratulations on your pregnancy

Sorry about the typos, hopefully that message makes sense 🙈

They won’t take the baby if they’re sure that he or she will be safe.

The best thing you can do is to work with them in a really open and honest way to show all the changes that have happened in your life, and how you will keep on making sure you’re happy and healthy, and can provide a safe environment for the baby.

There’s a charity called Family Rights Group that advises people in your position.

@Rainallnight

They won’t take the baby if they’re sure that he or she will be safe.

The best thing you can do is to work with them in a really open and honest way to show all the changes that have happened in your life, and how you will keep on making sure you’re happy and healthy, and can provide a safe environment for the baby.

There’s a charity called Family Rights Group that advises people in your position.

Thank you so much

@Nellesbelles

Social services don't want to take babies away from their family unless it is absolutely necessary for that baby's wellbeing. As you day, you were in a dangerous situation when you has your first child, you have done really well to get yourself in a better position now. Social services are just checking that you and baby are safe and you are not in danger as you are at risk due to your past. They will see how well you are doing and very likely leave you to it . Congratulations on your pregnancy

Thank you so much made me feel a lot better