OK so I have a wonderful 11y daughter, who while with my husband and myself has all the confidence in the whole and can speak up for herself without an issue, but when it comes to school and friends she is the complete opposite.
She has never liked to get in trouble at school and now she has started high school and it's even worse, she is petrified almost about getting a c2 (lunch detention) as they are really strict on many things. She struggled at primary raising her hand and speaking in class, but now she won't do it at all, in fear of getting laughed at by her peers or getting told off for not knowing what she has to do, but again won't ask. She has had a complete meltdown tonight, begging us to not make her go to school as she doesn't know if the new friends like her and feels lonely there. She feels like the teachers don't care, but will not ask for help. I am so lost, half of me knows she has to go to school and wants to stick her on the bus whatever happens, but the other half wants to protect my baby girl and keep her safe with me. Are any of you going through something similar?