I have two kids age 17 and 3 and I have spent all of my eldest live feeling like the worse parent cos my son talks about his dad like he is superman even tho he hardly sees him from one month to the next. And now I’m newly single again with my ex partner in the army he is around more then my last ex but still I feel like the second parent cos both kids just want dad all the time and never seem to realise or appreciate I’m the one that is there al the time and the one who does everything, I have never missed a parents evening or Christmas performance I’m always the one to go come on let’s do something while there dads are happy to just sit watch tv for example I’m just feeling really worthless like whatever I do I just not enough I did everything for there dads and they left and I do everything for my kids and I still get I want dad.