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Is 2 year old lazy? How to encourage more activity

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Roo0987 · 01/10/2021 11:14

My 2 year old daughter eats really healthily, lots of fruit and veg and never had any chocolate or processed food. Her weight is on the 98th centile though and height only on 70th..although she doesn’t look overweight I know at the 2 year review the HV will probably tell me that she is...

The problem I think if not good but exercise. I always take her out twice a day, once in the morning to the park, woods sometimes taking her scooter. Once I’m the afternoon for some kind of activity like swimming or soft play. She’s at nursery 3 days a week but they spend all day playing outside so I think she stays pretty active there too.

The problem I have is she tends to get bored and want to sit down or be carried quite quickly. She doesn’t seem to like walking at all..she’s better with the scooter but I usually end up carrying it most the way. I’ve tried to refuse carrying her and walking away a little bit etc but she just doesn’t budge and goes into full blown tantrum throwing herself on the floor and screaming so I just don’t know what else to do..I can’t force her to walk. Same with soft play, she likes it for a bit then just comes to sit down on the chairs!

I’ve got a baby due next month and worried about how I’m going to leave the house as I can’t carry her all the time when I’ve got the newborn in the carrier and if I take the pram she just wants to get in it all the time!

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Opalfeet · 01/10/2021 22:37

I ditched buggy at two, if you're attachment parenting get a nice toddler carrier?

lnsufficientFuns · 01/10/2021 22:41

I remember my 18 month old Moaning at walking home from nursery - it was about ten minutes walk but up a fairly steep hill - I just didn’t get it. He’d only been walking a few months... I gave up on the second attempt and brought the buggy, and realised what an idiot I was. I look back on those days and feel so sorry for him 😂

whatswithtodaytoday · 01/10/2021 22:47

At 2 mine wanted to be carried ALL the time. He couldn't even seem to get to the end of the street some days. Now he's closer to 3 he can run for ages, if he's somewhere interesting he just goes... but if it's the same old walk around our local neighborhood he wants to sit down and play with stones. He gets bored!

He also does that classic child thing of gaining weight and then shooting up in height. Checking his BMI would be pointless as it probably varies dramatically from one week to the next.

She sounds fine. Let her chill at home a bit more if she seems tired, don't make her walk.

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Neonplant · 01/10/2021 22:51

I think before you start using phrases like overweight you should educate yourself on the origins of the bmi measurement. It was never supposed to be applied on an individual basis or to children.

I say this as somone who does belive weight can have an impact on health. I've just had bariatric surgery to stop my weight effecting my health. So I'm not completely denying health and weight links, but I do really think we've got it wrong when it comes to worry about a 2 year old.

Roo0987 · 01/10/2021 23:06

@Neonplant thanks, I’ve since spoken to one of my friends who got a grilling from her health visitor at her daughter’s 2 year check up as she was classed as obese according to the BMI calculator! She was a chunky toddler but is now rail thin at 6 years and super active. My daughter’s dad is very tall so I’m thinking she’ll probably shoot up at some point! It does seem mad to give parents a grilling at such a young age but I guess they’re trying to safeguard and catch the ones who are being fed cakes all day everyday as young as possible

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Imatwinmum · 02/10/2021 15:38

I have a 3 year old and she does wayyy less than this. Even before I had my twins!

Nursery is tiring enough. She loves playing at home with me, baking, watching movies, pottering around the garden. We do a mummy daughter date on a Saturday morning and DH is going to start taking her swimming on sundays but that’s it.

Don’t put so much pressure on yourself and please get some rest! Your little girl will just love being with you even if that’s at home or a quiet morning at the park.

Imatwinmum · 02/10/2021 15:40

Just to add my little girl can’t walk that far either, or she can be likes being carried! Thinking of getting a buggy board but the weather seems to bad at the moment I’m not sure it’s worth it!

Iggly · 02/10/2021 15:41

The only other thing to consider is are her shoes ok?

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