For last two years I done it all
I dealt with 99.9% of nights I always been the one to take her to bed and get her down for the night,
Due to job changes and being truthful with how many holidays we do go on
I now got a second job
My first job before baby was 40+ week
Once had baby and before his job change I worked one day week
Now I have second job 7pm/1am
He works 9/5 so he gets home I leave 45mins later we have dinner together
But from when I leave he still left to do bath brush hair books and and bed
Well last night I'm being told bath and bed where both just screaming fits she normally down by 8 she didn't go down till 8:45
Then when I come home at 1am she woke ( always been light sleeper and noises stairs) I dealt with her but was good half hour of screaming for either of us etc refusing sleep I could hear him moaning and grunting
He got up at 6am with her as he leaves for work 8 I get chance have few hours more sleep
They both fell asleep downstairs and didn't actually wake till 7:30 I could hear her moaning about stuff and I could just tell by tone his voice he was annoyed
So I asked, and truth be hold he very annoyed about last night and the screaming then her waking up it a lot it hard work it got harder as she got older...
In way I didn't know what to say part me thinks I done this for two years, when wake next morning you just have forget about
Last night and take the day as new again
No point having hump about it
But he was angry this morning and I just don't get why..
I get up when he leaves at 8 I spend all day being mum cleaner a friend play buddy cook go out etc i then go to work at 7pm
Don't know how much more I can do really