He's become extremely unsettled and behaviour has declined. It normally starts when he gets dressed because he hates his uniform. Once he's dressed he's fine and will go into school ok. He stays at his dad on Sunday and Monday night and when he takes him to school his behaviour is the worst. He ends up going into school screaming and lashing out all morning. I don't feel his dad gives him enough time in the morning, his dad feels that it's because he doesn't see a lot of him and his quality time is now compromised with school. His dad wants to change our childcare so he has him fri and sat one week and sun and mom the next meaning he gets morning quality time with him.
I'm absolutely lost with this. I think my son needs more consistency and routine to get used to the school adjustment. I fear that agreeing with ex is just taking away time from me and giving me more school (which I don't mind on one hand because I would rather take him to school if I can support him more).
I know nobody on here knows me personally but I'm just after experience and ideas. I'm feeling really emotional today.
Ex works in a childcare setting and often pushes me out because he thinks he and his family know more. He's told the head teacher today he wants our son to have a special aid because he's so concerned without really addressing the issue may be stemming from his morning routine and not getting up early enough with him!
Really appreciate any replies.