Meet the Other Phone. A phone that grows with your child.

Meet the Other Phone.
A phone that grows with your child.

Buy now

Please or to access all these features

Parenting

For free parenting resources please check out the Early Years Alliance's Family Corner.

Exs partner

11 replies

Lolalop · 19/09/2021 23:56

Recently I found out my ex partner has been seeing a woman who has had her children removed of her, no longer has full custody of them. I do not know anymore information than this. But what is there that I could put into place to prevent my children from seeing her
Thanks

OP posts:
youvegottenminuteslynn · 19/09/2021 23:59

You can't dictate who he introduces the kids to during the hours he has your DC.

Whether that's fair or not, it's the reality.

If you have reason to believe she is a danger to your children (e.g. she served time for repeated abuse of children) you can ask the police for advice / support.

But if that's not the case, it's not something you can influence I'm afraid. His time, his introductions.

Pissinthepottyplease · 20/09/2021 14:53

I would ring the police and ss and ask their advice.

Pompom2367 · 20/09/2021 14:54

Was it by social services op

Interested in this thread?

Then you might like threads about these subjects:

Brollywasntneededafterall · 20/09/2021 14:54

Ring ss for advice.

lunar1 · 20/09/2021 14:55

You could use Sarah's Law, I'm not sure if it covers everything but it would be a start.

IveGotASongThatllGetOnYNerves · 20/09/2021 14:56

You should phone social services and ask their advice.

Brakebackcyclebot · 20/09/2021 14:58

Surely it depends on the reasons. Is it that her children were removed from her care by social services, or is it that her ex now has shared care ordered by a court? They are very different.

I don't know how you find out though, sorry.

ANameChangeAgain · 20/09/2021 14:58

Phone 101 and ask for disclosure under Sarah's Law. Also contact SS. If there isn't any information available then she won't be considered a risk. It may be that her ex was violent or on drugs, or she might have previous drug issues, so try not to make frightening assumptions.

MoggyP · 20/09/2021 15:02

Sarah's law allows checks on people who are likely to have unsupervised access to a child, and I think it would apply in this case (eg if their father pops out whilst she is there)

Call 101 to arrange this.

Everything will hinge on why her DC were removed from her care, and whether she has any convictions for child abuse.

Depending on what you find out, it might be prudent to involve social services.

DiaryofWimpyMumm · 20/09/2021 15:05

I was in this position. Thankfully it was many years ago. I fuu it don't let my DSs near her which impacted on my ex and led to him never seeing them.

DiaryofWimpyMumm · 20/09/2021 15:05

Sorry that was *didn't

New posts on this thread. Refresh page
Swipe left for the next trending thread