My DS should be starting Yr1 this September however so far I have no way to get him to the school he has been offered.
Backstory, in April 2021 we moved 6/7 miles away and applied to move DS to one of two schools closer to our new house & were placed on the wait list. It is about a 15-20minute drive away through a busy city centre at rush hour to his original school & we muddled on for the last term with the help of my niece doing drop offs and DH changing his shift pattern at work to be able to pick up.
We both work 9-5 office jobs, but mine is 30+ miles away so no way any amount of shift altering would mean I was able to do either.
DH is a key worker, with set hours & his work were able to swap lunches and the tasks he did in the afternoon so he could take his lunch hour 3-4 for pick up, but can’t do this on a morning too.
My niece is also now heading off to uni so her taking DS is no longer an option.
We picked two schools the first being a preference because although slightly further from our new house (still within comfortable walking distance) our current childminder who has looked after DS since 9month & his younger sister currently do pick up/drop off there, all the children in that setting go to this school so DS would have friends, and my SIL also works there as support staff.
The second choice was the school less than 330m (as the crow flies which seems to be how schools measure) from ours.
He was rejected from both as he had a “viable school place” already. Something we were only told because we called the council to chase up at the start of the summer holidays, no letter was sent etc. We lodged an appeal immediately, but heard nothing and apparently this was “lost” (as in physically, not we lost the appeal)
I have resubmitted everything and have been on the phone daily to the council and have an appeal for the second choice school at the end of September.
I realise that appeals can only be won on the grounds of mistakes being made, what I’m trying to find out is what information do I need to get together to prove a mistake has been made. I don’t believe his place was properly applied for for September 21 start and/or our distance from the school has been properly calculated. We live in a very small village where everyone knows everyone and we have been told we’re 2nd on the waiting list because there is another child who lives closer, but how can I prove this is wrong because they are obviously not going to give me details of the other address.
I know people will tell me to look at other options and so far we have:
- Tried the three other schools in our “pyramid” all of which are full
- have looked at a childminder who does pick up/drops offs at his offered school and they are full.
- my work are being as helpful as they can but I am responsible for my office so while I can WFH occasionally, it is vital that I am in the office by 9am at least 3/5 days. They have also offered me a company car which is great as we’re currently a one car family, however it won’t be ready until the end of September/start of October so we still have 4+ weeks with no way to get him to school & even with a second car my husband is very likely going to be late to work regularly (traffic dependant) as current school open the gates at 8:45am, and he has to be at work 15 minutes later, going on a journey that takes 15 minutes on a good day!
- His current school don’t offer any breakfast club and last year suspended all after school clubs (they might make a come back after the October half term, Covid dependant I guess)
- grandparents, to put it bluntly half are dead and the other half live an hour away, so not an option.
- why did we move in the first place without knowing we had a school place? We moved from a well known council estate with an ongoing drug problem (that has made national news) to a quiet village with scarecrow festivals and classic car shows, who wouldn’t jump at the chance to move?!
- asked for transport from the council with one staff saying “can he get the 196 bus?” (HES 5!!) and another just saying “no” with no further explanation.
- we’ve even looked at seeing if there are any other parents that we could trust to take him for us, but 1) we don’t know any well enough other than to say a polite hello in the playground and 2) would YOU want essentially a stranger coming to your house at 7:30am and dropping their tired, ratty kid off while you’re dealing with your own? At least when I do this with my childminder she knows me and my children, is paid very well for it & is a trained professional!
We have a complaint lodged with the council about the whole process, how it wasn't explained, paper work wasn’t issued, and also regarding the head of admissions and her attitude. For example when I asked who I could escalate to she told me “don’t bother they’ll tell you the same thing” and when I asked for the details of where to make a complaint “I’m not finding that, you can do it”
And “you could live on the school field, I’m not giving you a place at this school” (in reference to our 2nd choice when I asked how much closer we’d have to live to be top of the wait list)
I’m just at my wits end and have spent every day for weeks crying trying to think of a solution.
Sorry for the rant! x