Okay, so I’m a mum to my lovely 3 yr old and 10 month old. I adore them, after losing both mum abs dad I depend on only myself for childcare when sob isn’t at playschool and hubby. My brother never bothers we always reach out to him to meet up with him and wife the kids love seeing what little family I have. My partner texted and said due to no childcare I can’t come but have a free ticket then and he said yes. I texted and said I’d really appreciate if you were able to look after the kids and me go I’ve not had a weekend off with my partner since last year. And he just said no but he’s looking forward to going. I feel sad , not over the game but how family can totally disregard feelings for someone that really wants to go. I’m stuck in a situation because now my partners dad said he’d take care of the children (he thought orginally he was working we did ask) but is now free. Am I being selfish do I just bite my tongue and stay home and let my brother go or tell him I’m going. But I feel bad. Help.