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Drama classes/‘theatre school’ problems

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Fingerscrossed11 · 02/09/2021 22:15

Hi,

Thank you for reading in advance.

So I am always one for trying to get my son into classes to bring him on as there aren’t many kids in our street etc.

Anyway signed him up for this theatre school which have adverts on Facebook constantly for new people to join with auditions The name sounded impressive and I thought I’ll send him to see how it pans out. Anyway he went for the audition and got a place but to be honest I think anyone that pays the £10/15 (can’t remember was 3 years ago) is given a place. The theatre school
Seems very money orientated.

Pay for audition, pay for inform, pay for jazz shoes, (the clothing and shoes I understand) Christmas show in a venue they say they used to work in, pay for photos, pay £120 for child to take part for costume and admin, then have to pay for 4 seats even if you need one. There’s no leeway it’s pat 4 seats or none.

Anyway, I’m sorry for long message but not finished yet. I was told by one of the helpers maybe aged 16/17/18 on Saturday past when I collected my child that he had been sitting out, I asked if this had happened week before as they have only been back 2 weeks since summer holidays, she then said to me yes and it’s been happening for a while now. I’ve received an email from them saying the direct debit is cancelled but they can reinstate and charge me £20 fee. This place is registered as a charity. said i owe over £800 and i have no idea where that comes from as everything up to date.

So this agency who give fees for photos/ fees for theatre school (albeit the last lesson is games apparently rather than hour dance, hour singing and hour musical theatre) have been taking well over £100 a month when they know my son has been sitting out and not partaking. No one, no teacher, no admin staff contacted me but this young girl who takes them to and from classes and I’m so thankful she did. I’ve basically spent thousands of pounds on my son sitting out of classes without any notification.

After what happened on Saturday I cancelled my direct debit, got an email from them tonight saying I owed well over £800 and that they could reinstate direct debit. I’ve tried all night to write a reply but my youngest didn’t want you to sleep Grin and now I’m too tired but also wanted your advice.

He started when he was 4 and it was 3 months upfront payment which don’t actually kick in until you give your notice your leaving. If your leaving do you really want to pay 3 months after that or attend 3 months after that? Anyway apart from that come October/November last year I had missed a couple of payments due to covid and being on maternity leave and was told if i didn’t pay then and there he wouldn’t be able to attend lessons and I would need to pay £140.?? a month instead of £80.90 and if I didn’t pay x amount now he wouldn’t be able to attend any classes. I was on maternity leave and I did pay it but I left myself with such little disposable income due to this.

Anyway this ‘charity’ is now going to try take £20 fee of me and reinstate the direct debit albeit for a very long period of time my son had beeb allowed to sit on a bench outside the class area and im
basically paying for nothing.

any advice would be appreciated xx

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Mamainthemaking · 02/09/2021 22:40

Wow this sounds like such a money making scheme. Regardless of the price, the fact they left your son out would be enough for me to look elsewhere. I’d leave and also look into where I could report this company/charity.

Fingerscrossed11 · 02/09/2021 23:23

@Mamainthemaking
It does seem to be a huge cash driver to be honest. Tried to convince myself otherwise but after what’s happened can’t ignore the facts anymore. Thank you for your reply and spot on

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PamDenick · 02/09/2021 23:27

Ask to see their Policies on Safeguarding. It sounds like they have been neglectful to let you know about your son’s wellbeing?

And cut your losses and stay away from them…

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Fingerscrossed11 · 02/09/2021 23:36

@PamDenick
Thank you. I will do that. Xx

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Mamainthemaking · 02/09/2021 23:53

I hope your son finds a group/activity worthy of him @Fingerscrossed11! Good luck!

nancypineapple · 03/09/2021 07:39

There are quite a few terrible "theatre" schools for kids around. I sent mine to a local drama group that had it's own premises and wasn't part of a franchise. It was lovely and inclusive and my daughter still talks of going back to it ( we left because she had some professional work and there was no spare time) You shouldn't pay to be part of an agency- only for spotlight and for photo's ( however phones are so good now that you can update your childs yourself ) Weekend theatre school agencies are usually run by the same people doing admin etc so not run by actual agents and are often a way of getting parents to sign up. E mail them saying you are not happy with their safeguarding and lack of feedback. You could always CC the safeguarding team from your local council. That should allow the drama group to rethink your demand.

2reefsin30knots · 03/09/2021 07:52

Sitting out because of his behaviour? Maybe it really isn't the right activity for him if he regularly responds in a way that is so disruptive that they need to ask him to sit at the side.

Are you saying the £800+ they say you owe is incorrect? If so, ask them for a breakdown and use your bank statements to prove you paid. If you actually do owe them £800, I don't think you will be able to get out of paying by saying they sat your DS on a bench because of his behaviour.

Wagglerock · 03/09/2021 08:07

I don't get it. Is he sitting out because he doesn't like it or because of his behaviour? Does he tells you what happens in the sessions? What role does he do in the performances? My niece goes to a theatre school and is constantly performing and reciting what they've learnt.

I think you need to be really clear on what you signed up for and the costs so find your contract and their T&C's, check your accounts to see how many months you did miss and speak to the most senior person you can find.

Fingerscrossed11 · 03/09/2021 09:57

@2reefsin30knots
Think you may have misunderstood. My child isn’t asked to sit out, he chooses to sit out. The fact this has been happening for a considerable period of time and I was only informed last week by one of the helpers is the issue.

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Fingerscrossed11 · 03/09/2021 10:00

@Wagglerock
He is sitting out because he doesn’t like it, not due to his behaviour. Anytime I’ve asked him he did have a good time he’d say yes but I think that’s just for my benefit. The issue is that I’ve been paying for classes he’s sitting out of and I hadn’t been informed until just last week.

I will, thank you.

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SparrowNest · 03/09/2021 14:23

The school sounds like a con and I’m sorry you’ve been stung.

It might be good to try and get to the bottom of why your son felt he couldn’t tell you he wasn’t enjoying it, though. Is it possible he felt you wanted him to be good at drama and under pressure to please you?

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