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Holidaying with kids without burnout?

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Iyawa · 26/08/2021 07:37

Currently on a caravan holiday with my kids and experiencing some kind of burnout. Is it even possible to enjoy this kind of family holiday as a mum?

The children are 6 and 2.5 and stopping the youngest from running off too far when playing around the caravan is stressful.

They keep arguing and we're stuck in this confined space together as the caravan is very small.

To limit the arguing, we're having to keep them occupied, all activities have to be booked in advance, which is a pain and by the time we're in the pool/ arrive for the activity we have to leave again as time is limited by the park. It's all rush. There is no time to relax or enjoy anything for any length of time.

If the youngest stays up in the evening, he's horrible the day after and is having lots of tantrums, this means putting them to bed and missing out on the entertainment, that we as adults might actually enjoy!

We're surrounded by kids activities. What's in it for the adults? There's fayres amusements, beaches, piers etc but everywhere is rammed busy and the 2.5 year old refuses to go in his pushchair. I'm exhausted.

The kids are also still waking at their usual time of 6am, regardless of later nights etc!

Then there's all the usual cooking and washing up as any decent restaurants are all fully booked and the one on site is overpriced for basically chips, burgers and pizza. So it's just hectic busy of the usual jobs with additional pressures in a smaller space than at home.

Do other parents actually enjoy these type of holidays? I was excited to come for my children to have a good time and I thought, by extension I would too.

Feel like I need a holiday myself after this. But also really upset with myself for not enjoying this holiday more as it cost almost £1500.

Any holiday tips for the future or advice on where I've gone wrong?

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SpringRainbow · 28/08/2021 04:29

You do know you don’t have to constantly entertain your children? You certainly don’t have to do the entertainment either.

You can still do your own holiday. You are allow to let your children watch some TV. The site entertainment is not compulsory, you won’t get kicked off if you don’t watch it.

I suspect you wouldn’t find a remote cottage any more relaxing. Let the kids occupy themselves for a little.

CeeceeBloomingdale · 28/08/2021 04:43

We never do the organised activities or entertainment. Literally the only thing we would use is the pool. Otherwise we make our own entertainment, go for walks, to beaches, local sights. A day out can be all day or 3 hours. We have lots of down time. Trying to cram too much in is a recipe for disaster.

Iyawa · 28/08/2021 13:00

It doesn't help that DH wants to "pack lots in" as he puts it and has just complained that if it were up to him we would have done "much more."

We have literally been out non-stop and had zero down time. He seems to think that the youngest should be able to tolerate being out and about all day, swimming, beach, meals, evening entertainment and late nights. It just isn't going to happen.

He's just not being realistic and he makes me feel like the party pooper for thinking about their sleep and eating needs.

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Siracha · 28/08/2021 17:00

I find holidaying with young kids is just as hard (if not harder) than if they were staying home.

Same amount of chores - washing dishes, cooking, cleaning and with extras like packing bags for the beach and activities.

The pressure to do activities and trips out daily on holiday just adds to the already tiresome souls we are.

I have no advice. It’s bloody hard.

Iyawa · 28/08/2021 17:30

Oh yes the packing and unpacking beach bags, wet stuff, the state of the car... all such a lot of extra hassle @siracha

Predictably, I've come down with an illness right before we're due to go home. Same happened last year. Complete burn out.

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