Sorry for the long post, but was just looking for some impartial views on my current situation and how you would react, I’m a single mum to a amazing 17 month old little girl she’s my whole world. Me and her father are not together and never have been really he was a work colleague and we had a fling that resulted in my daughter being conceived. We do not have the best coparent relationship, he’s quite inconsistent in my daughters life and has only started to help financially with her in the last 2 months after I finally went to cms. Anyway, when my daughter was around 9 months old, her father was kicked out of his parents house for reasons I don’t know( his parents are very involved with my daughter) and was put into temporary homeless accommodation by the local council. The council gave him a two bedroom property on the basis that he has overnight access to our daughter, we both discussed things and agreed that this would be a fresh start and he could build a home for our child and have her regularly overnight, this obviously did not happen, he never took her overnight, the place was a complete mess and it actually came to my attention that he wasn’t actually living in the property half the time and was subletting it to his mates and was he was staying in live in accommodation through his work. Fast forward a few months and the council wrote to me and asked me to confirm that her father had overnight access to our child so the could move him into a permanent 2 bedroom property, obviously I replied that he did not have overnight access to our child for reasons above. There for he would only get a one bedroom which I thought was fair considering he hadn’t stepped up the way he should have and he would have to move out of his current property in the near future when a one bedroom comes available. He said he understood why I did not sign the letter in his favour. Anyway I text him yesterday asking if he was available and wanted to see his daughter this week and he replied that he was busy moving out of his flat this week, I asked where he was moving to then and where had the council placed him? And he has told me he has refused the flat the council offered him and is moving in with his girlfriend. I knew he was seeing someone as a mutual friend told me but he has never as much told me he has a girlfriend, never mentioned her at all to me. I don’t even know this girls name, all I know is that she works with him and the have know each other 4 months. Anyway he says that he will start taking our daughter at her house. I said no as I know nothing about this girl and feel him only knowing this girl for four months is too soon for her to be involved with our daughter. He has called me petty and we have got into a big fight about it all, I’m just very annoyed with how he has gone about this, I feel like he could have handled things much better and actually told me about his girlfriend and not just message me the night before he was moving in with her. Anyway I just wanted some impartial views on this and wonder how I handle this going forward?