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DS doesn't want to go to nursery anymore

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Frezia · 13/08/2021 09:43

DS will soon turn 4. He's been going to nursery since he was 1 and adjusted quickly and well. He generally liked going to nursery, had good relationships with other children and nursery workers and all the reports we received were that he was settled, happy and sociable. He is now in the preschool group.

A couple of weeks ago we got back from a 2 week holiday which coincided with his nursery best friend leaving for another childcare setting. He's been devastated about going to nursery ever since, very tearful in the morning saying he wants to stay with mummy and daddy, and unsettled throughout the day which is unlike him. In the evening he asks for reassurances that he won't have to go in the next day Sad
He says he would go to nursery if we went with him, so it's not the nursery itself that's the issue.

He's not due to start reception for another year but we are moving him to a school nursery in September which he sounds fairly excited about.
But we have about a month to go at this place where now there's a turnover of kids leaving for other settings, including his best mate who he was very attached to, and I'm not sure how to help him handle it.

We can't afford to keep him at home and have no family close enough to help.

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BernadetteRostankowskiWolowitz · 13/08/2021 09:45

All you can do is repeat "its only a month more here".

He is 4. He will get over it.

00100001 · 13/08/2021 09:46

He'll adjust soon enough to the people leaving.

Just keep him there for his stability.

Booboosweet · 13/08/2021 10:34

You'll be able to ride it out. He'll be fine. All kids go through little phases like this. Just keep sending him.

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Frezia · 13/08/2021 12:59

Thanks for your comments. We were lucky we only briefly had to deal with it when he first started going. For some reason it seems more difficult now he's older. He's had short phases before of whinging about not wanting to go, usually after holidays or breaks, but never actually crying and he'd always settle once at nursery.

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pinkmoon18 · 13/08/2021 13:10

Have they said how he is once he's in and settled?
If he's fine then please don't worry.
They all tend to go through a phase of saying they don't want to go.
If he's excited for school nursery tell him few more weeks and it's big school!

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