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Can I share my sleep success please

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NigellaSeed · 08/08/2021 21:00

My DS is soon to be 14 months. And up until two nights ago, he was fed or (plan b) rocked to sleep. He's never gotten to sleep on his own, only in someone's arms (but he does actually self soothe and sleep through most nights now.)
Me and DP never wanted to try any of the cry it out sleep training but we did try putting him in his cot drowsy, patting and pick up put down and they all caused melt downs and never worked. So we just kept on feeding and rocking him, wondering when we would have to finally address this head on.

Well last night and tonight, after his feed he was still very much awake. Laid him in his cot, said night, stroked his head and he went to sleep!

So this post isn't to brag, or to put down anyone elses method, but I just wanted to share this in case it makes anyone feel better about their situation. I won't have to rock a 12 year old to sleep! Whoop

Also, I will enjoy it while it lasts, fully aware they'll be a regression of some sort right round the corner :)

(Now if I could only get him to sleep in his cot instead of his pram for his naps :D)

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SamanthaVimes · 08/08/2021 22:18

Congratulations!

As the mother of a 13 month old feed/rock to sleep baby this is very encouraging Smile

OddshoesOddsocks · 08/08/2021 22:27

Amazing! I have a 15 month old who seems immune to sleep and is no fan of her cot so i completely sympathise! Enjoy a (hopefully!) quiet evening!

NigellaSeed · 09/08/2021 11:00

Yes I'm hoping that this means if you are willing to wait (and 14m is a long wait), you can avoid sleep training and it will come naturally. Too soon to say though! 🤞🤞

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KangarooSally · 10/08/2021 06:06

Didn't work for one of my sisters, she still has to cosleep with her nearly 4 year old.

Arcminute · 10/08/2021 07:03

I know a 12yo who was sleep trained as a baby, and who ends up in their mum’s bed about half the time these days. And so what? What they do as babies means very little long term either way really.

Hooray OP! My eldest took a while to get there but was happily in his own bed in his own room by 2yo

Mc3209 · 10/08/2021 08:20

I am pleased to hear there is hope! My 9 months old is fed to sleep and sees his cot as a play place. Will only sleep in our bed. I don't want to sleep train, and still hope he will grow out of it eventually.

BertieBotts · 10/08/2021 08:31

I didn't sleep Train either of mine and they did become independent in sleep by themselves around 2-3 years old. It definitely comes if you leave them to it.

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