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Age gap between children?

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Loulou946 · 08/08/2021 15:16

Has anyone else got an age gap, we have 11, 8 & almost 2yr old boys. Things are great currently but I’m wondering how things might go in 5-10yrs time.
Mainly for the youngest, I can’t expect teens to want to play etc with a younger child but hopefully they will have their own bond.
Trying to decide whether to stay as we are- easier on us or go for 1 more so youngest has someone to grow up with closer to his age.
Thanks

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MyShoelaceIsUndone · 08/08/2021 20:22

Each persons experience is different, if my kids get on yours may not and vice versa can’t base that in a reason to have another or not. It depends on their personalities.

30degreesandmeltinghere · 08/08/2021 20:23

6 year gap between my youngest 2 boys. Now 12 and 6 and still best mates!!

TheFormidableMrsC · 08/08/2021 20:27

13 years between my two. My eldest is very close to her younger brother.

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lking679 · 08/08/2021 20:29

My siblings are 15 years, 12 years, 18 months older than me and my twin is 8 minutes younger. Get on with brother 12 yes older and my twin the best. It’s our personalities that count, not the age gap really!

Loulou946 · 08/08/2021 21:10

Thank you all, yes I’ve seen it said lots about it been personality more so. Think I just feel abit guilty/worried about the younger 1. I grew up eldest to my 7yrs younger brother & he wasn’t the easiest of kids! Mostly annoying kid stuff & abit naughty! But we do have a good relationship now & I definitely wouldn’t be without him & glad I have him. So it all worked out in the end! Just those awkward teen yrs I think on my part clashing with his boisterous irritating kid side haha.
I wouldn’t mind having another- I’ve always wanted a big family as I only have my brother & my mum. I love my kids & love the younger yrs but also do feel the stress when the tough stages come & it would be nice not to have to do the sleepless nights etc again!
It’s so 50/50 one side it’s a relief thinking I never have to parent a baby or toddler again (aside from grandchildren) the other is wistful romaticsised idea of another & for my youngest to grow up with someone.

But yes I know it likely Wouldn’t work out that way, &/or it would just be very stressful, at least for a couple of yrs. I have this window where we can ttc & it’s hard to know which way to go.
Thank you all for taking the time to reply Smile

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