I am a single dad looking for a bit of independent advice away from family and friend on when it is acceptable to introduce your kids to a partner.
My daughters mother has been in numerous relationships since we broke up almost 2 years ago. We agreed that we would bring anyone else into our daughters lives to protect then until it was serious and we both agreed it was time. However my daughter where introduced to the previous boyfriend when they had only been going out for a few month and due to the track record before this I wasn't happy as she wasn't getting to know the person first. This relationship ended less than a month ago and when I picked up my daughter over the weekend I was told by one of them that a man come over. I did confronted mum but she lied about it. Later on my daughter then made me aware that this man stayed over night. There is no need for this in my opinion as she has 3 nights each week to do as she please when the kids are with myself. I just believe when you have 2 young daughter you can never be to careful and that this is far too soon as this person could be anyone you don't really know someone properly for years never mind a few weeks.
I feel my daughters wellbeing are not been put first but when I approach her family I was told I was jealous and controlling.