I must admit I had this vision when I found out I was having my second daughter that there would be this lovely sister bond.
My girls however fight from the moment they wake up. They want the same thing they winge they cry they intentionally get in the way of each other pinch and step on each other. They're just wild.
I've just left one downstairs and the other upstairs and said if they can't play nicely they can't play together. I'm battered! We've been up for 4 hours and I'm ready to call it a day! I get it kids fight but this is day in day out, they're better with their father but as soon as I'm around they just want me for themselves and the fighting gets worse. I'm exhausted I just feel like I can never have fun with my girls together because they fight with each other and they fight for me alone and its sucks.
They're so both incredibly clingy they both followed me this morning like duckling while I put landy away up and down the stairs about 4 times.
Before anyone asks I do play with them a lot I try to get involved and then dip in and out but it never works,if I sit there the entire time and play for example sit while they do lego they just end up climbing on me ditch the lego and then fight over who gets to climb on me.
How do I change this unhealthy level of clinginess I feel like it might resolve the fights?