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Does anyone else feel traumatised after stomach bugs?

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Soapybubbles10 · 10/07/2021 14:04

They are the worst part of parenting. My now 6 year old had about 5 between being 1 and 3. But We've had a couple of years sick free. Possibly 3 years!

I went to collect my youngest from the childminder on Monday. I was handed a washed coat and told another child had vomited on it as they were leaving. I cringed but hoped the child just felt sick from playing or eating too much.

The next night about 30 hours later my partner calls me from downstairs. My son had just thrown up for the first time in his life! I thought here we go! It was an hourly vomit then for 8 hours.

Sent older one to school the next day .was on edge. Cleaned the house. Youngest was lethargic all day.

The next day sent child to school, partner ran upstairs to be sick at lunch. He picks our DD up from school and I was caring for sick toddler. So my parents kindly collected older child. Partners tummy was dodgy all afternoon. I started to feel my stomach turning.

An hour after my dd got home from school she started throwing up. So I had partner in bed. Toddler half poorly. Other child puking. Me knowing it was coming for me next.

At 11pm I started throwing up. Which scared the eldest who was throwing up hourly or more.

It was like a horror show. Me and eldest DD are still weak and off. Youngest isn't eating much.

It was the first time we all got sick literally together and I hope it's an experience we never have to repeat.

I wish they could find a cure for sickness bugs. They are absolutely miserable and I am dreading the next one. I forgot how horrible they are.

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Twelvetimestwo · 10/07/2021 14:09

You sent a child to school despite the household having d&v?

Soapybubbles10 · 10/07/2021 14:21

I phoned the school and they said you can't keep them off unless they have it themselves.

At that stage she was fine? I couldn't just keep her off for 2 days before she got sick. She may never have got sick.

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naomi81 · 10/07/2021 14:23

It's awful, we've all had It for about 10 days now and it's still lingering 😩 feeling rotten.

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Radio4ordie · 10/07/2021 14:25

Gosh, yes. Awful. You have my sympathies.

Soapybubbles10 · 10/07/2021 14:26

Oh no. Has the sickness stopped and you just feel rough? My son's still not eating 4 days on aprt from the odd bit.

I just feel so gloomy today. Just don't feel right still.

Hope you all fell much better soon x

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MaMelon · 10/07/2021 14:28

God yes, hideous things. I had one four years ago over Christmas and I’m still traumatised - it was awful. I was actually really scared by how ill I was and how long I was laid low for after the double ended explosions had finally stopped.

LindaEllen · 10/07/2021 14:35

@Twelvetimestwo

You sent a child to school despite the household having d&v?
Since when did a child who wasn't sick have to stay home? It's only covid where contacts have ever been asked to isolate - kids have been going to school when other members of their household are unwell since the beginning of time. What a silly comment.x
Soapybubbles10 · 10/07/2021 14:43

They really do knock you off your feet. Especially when you have kids that need you. I literally could not move yesterday and going to the bathroom made me want to pass out. I almost wanted to cry.

Glad others don't think i was bad sending her in. In an ideal world I would have kept her home just incase but the school like good attendance and I don't want threatening letters from the school because she's been off for no reason.

I'd feel absolutely awful if anyone in her class gets it. Believe me I care and hating them myself I try my absolute best to keep away from people.

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modgepodge · 10/07/2021 15:23

Pre covid no one kept well kids off school. It’s a sign of the times that anyone is even questioning it!!!! I think it was fine to send her in if she felt ok.

It is horrendous- my daughter has only had one once when she was about 9/10 months, I was sick too. My husband was away at the time. Awful.

DressingGown87 · 10/07/2021 22:13

They are horrendous. I’ve not had one for awhile. But 3 weeks ago I just started being sick after dropping DD off, for a 24hr period. Childminder dropped DD off, who had been fine all day. But I then spent all night trying to get DD (8mo) to bed, whilst she was crying the house down, with my head in the toilet / bucket! Single mum, and nobody could come and help / wanted to come near.

Luckily she escaped the sickness, but not everything else, so it’s been a tough few weeks. But then every other child at the childminders got it, I felt awful, but had been perfectly fine when I dropped her off.

Hope you all feel better soon! There is something going round I think.

Bksjshsbbev2737 · 11/07/2021 07:11

My DS has a stomach bug recently and somehow no one else got it but I still feel traumatised after several days of vomiting (over me and everywhere), not sleeping, and ending up with a hospital visit due to dehydration. He has bounced back quicker than I have!

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