Bit of a long winded post but I’m really unsure as to what to think at the minute. My partner have been struggling for a long time and are very sat of the fence about leaving each other or staying. I get confused as to why he does certain things. For example, today I am going to work at 2 I said to him I will need to grab a quick shower this morning and that was fine (he said). When going upstairs to put my DD down for a nap. He said he was going to get a bath, he NEVER EVER gets a bath, he’s actually said he doesn’t like them. We can’t both be having a bath or shower at the same time as my DD has been a nightmare with her naps at the minute and he knows that. When I told him it’s a bit awkward and could he not get a shower after me all hell broke loose. I was told I’m controlling and unfair, etc. So I had to sit there with my DD whilst she went down for a nap which took ages whilst my partner had a nice long relaxing bath. I’ve just managed to get a quick shower but have had to miss out washing my hair as it’s so long and would take a while to dry. I’m now missing out on the family walk as I’m not ready in time. I just feel as though it was done purposely to spite me. AIBU