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How to comfort child about residential

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PoliwagPie · 26/06/2021 22:11

My 11 y-old DD has been constantly worrying about her upcoming residential trip. She has 4 other friends who all want to be together, but there are only cabins of 4. All of the other girls are either quite nasty and practically bullies, or are quite childish and people she doesn't get along with.
There have been a lot of tears and I have tried my best to comfort her, but she is still very stressed. Any ideas?

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Kanaloa · 26/06/2021 22:16

The other girls in the class can’t all be childish or bullies. It might be a good opportunity to make friends with other girls so she has a wider friend group. And then during the day she can still see her friends.

Beamur · 26/06/2021 22:16

Speak to her class teacher and find out how they are arranging the cabins.

Seeline · 26/06/2021 22:17

Speak to the school and see if they will split the group of 4 in half so that she can share with 2 of them?

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lorisparkle · 26/06/2021 22:17

I went to speak to the class teacher when ds1 was going on residential as there had been some very sly bullying and I was worried he would end up in the same room as the bully. She was very understanding and we organised a suitable arrangement.

VimFuego101 · 26/06/2021 22:18

Room assignments for this kind of thing are a minefield, the teachers will have a plan. Talk to them about your concerns.

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