My daughter has been with her boyfriend for 2 years, he is her 1st boyfriend.
At first we opened our house to him and he has taken nothing but liberties ever since.
He helps himself to the fridge, opens drinks that he doesn’t finish, makes us feel unwelcome in our own house.
He refuses to let our daughter go, and he eat his food with one arms around her. It’s every uncomfortable to watch.
Most recently I had to ask them to not lie all over each over infront of us.
He also told us he was taking her away abs when he gave me the dates I told her her sister in law had a surprise spa booked for her birthday on one of these days, I asked him to leave it with me and I could sort it.
He immediately messaged her and told her he had planned a trip but she couldn’t go as we had arranged something else!
On her birthday he refused to acknowledge anybody else’s presents snd made the day uncomfortable.
Now of course, she says that we ignored him and we are not very nice to him and he feels unwelcome in our house.
She says we are mean to him. I have for the last year been paying for them to go out as he doesn’t work full time. And they have been enjoying numerous trips paid for by us.
I told her I wasn’t doing it willing to pay for them to go out anymore she seemed reluctant to tell him this.
She only cares about what he says and thinks we are being “mean” when we have expressed our concern about his “we will be together forever posts on social media”
He is totally obsessed with her.