Hi me and my ex broke up last year after he put me through hell. My ex has a son who is 12, he hasn’t seen since he was a baby. He always told me that his ex wouldn’t let him see his son. My daughter is 6 and she really wants to meet her half brother now she’s getting older. I got in contact with his mum and she told me that her son doesn’t know that my ex is his dad and her son has always called her partner dad and they now have a daughter together as well. She said she will not tell him about my daughter as it will turn his world upside down. Obviously I respect her wishes as she is his mum. I have never lied to my daughter I have always told her about her brother so if she grows up and wants to find him that is completely up to her. I wondered if anyone else had been in the same position and what the outcome was?