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Hormone attack or am I turning into a drip?

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Moorhen · 19/11/2007 15:35

DS is 16 weeks old, and the last few days I've been tearing up at EVERYTHING, bad and good. A selection:
*How lovely he is
*How much my DH loves him and how sad it is that he barely sees him during the week
*What will I do when I go back to work
*Seeing a neonatal ambulance speed past us on the motorway and wondering whose child is in it
*ANYTHING to do with children on TV
and the most stupid of all, yesterday:
*What will I do if my lovely precious little boy goes off to school and tries to make friends and gets left out - I can't stand the thought of it...

I give you my word I'm not normally like this. What's happening to me? Is it normal? Please tell me it goes away...

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TrinityRhino · 19/11/2007 15:35

I would say it is totally down to hormones
It will pass

THelesbellsRINGOUTFORCHRISTMAS · 19/11/2007 15:38

I would say its hormones too - At that age is when the real personality of a toddler starts to come through and you realise just how much you love them

mishymoo · 19/11/2007 15:38

Yip - totally, absolutely, 100% normal. I was exactly the same (and I still am) and my DS is 2.4!

It's the protective instinct that kicks in as soon as your LO enters this world. I never had it or felt that way until my DS was born.

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HuwEdwards · 19/11/2007 15:39

LOL!!!

Since having DCs (now 5 and 7) I am never more than a thought away from welling up about something. Children do that to you.

TrinityRhino · 19/11/2007 15:45

I must just add that I always have these feelings but I am an overly sensitive persin and have always been like that but if you aren't normally then it will probably be a passing hormobal thing as your ds is so young

Moorhen · 19/11/2007 18:04

Thanks all! Should apologise for using the word 'drip' in the title of the thread, didn't mean to suggest it's wrong to be this way, just that it's a bit weird for me. I am worrier, but not usually particularly tearful.

mishymoo, I think you're right about the protective instinct. Also I have no defences when it comes to DS - I can cope with something happening to me, but not him being unhappy or hurt or... anything, really.

Another peril of parenthood I hadn't thought about...

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Cammelia · 19/11/2007 18:07

Moorhen, it won't pass. This is it.

pirategirl · 19/11/2007 18:08

My dd is 5, and I remember that sudden flux of feelings, of compassion beyond the call of duty, when I saw anything to do with children on tv.

I then understood that when my mum used to say 'I can't watch this' and I thought she was being selfish, she really couldnt bear it.

Its so strong that feeling. I well up when i hear Christmas carols in the bloody supermarket!!!

LoveAngelGabriel · 19/11/2007 18:09

Totally normal!

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