I work full time, partner is stay at home parent for the children on weekends and holidays he doesn't claim benefits or work. I'm struggling to make ends meet with one sole wage for a family of 4. He knows this he will look for jobs for a week then give up. I'm also frustrated at the state of the house when I've finished work most days he won't lift a finger, 2 random days of the week he will wash up and wash the clothes but that's as far as he gets. I'm fed up and drained he claims he will do more but everything goes to the same old crap after a few weeks. I've attempted to split up with him numerous times but he guilt trips me as he has absolutely nothing no friends or family let alone not a single penny to his name. But I cannot live like this our debts have built over the covid pandemic and I cannot pay it off as quickly as them racking up. I have no idea what to do. Honestly I stay with him out of guilt, he knows i want out but he overshadows me by saying I will make yih happy again, things will change and get better, or just give it time to get a job. He thinks I am being unreasonable when I ask him to leave, he doesn't want a broken family children can't live like that for the sake of a rough patch. I just don't know anymore