Hi, I am 21. I took a year off uni to focus on mental health and now I'm pregnant. I was happy when I saw the test and my boyfriend was happy too and we both feel like maybe our reaction isn't normal given that we're only 21. We still have to tell his parents but he's pretty sure they will help us out as they have done so for his other siblings. I know there's a lot of financial and other worries, but I feel like going through with it is the best option so I would try doing uni at the same time and then if it's too much for me I would take another year off uni and then later come back to it. My only worry is what if I never come back to it? What if I like having kids so much that what I might potentially want won't matter? All I know is nothing makes me more happy than the thought of having this baby, but the reasonable thing to do would be to have an abortion according to the rest of the world. Since I was little I always had to care for everyone around me, my friend's children, my mom's children, elderly, so I know a lot about how to raise a healthy kid and the things I don't know I will ask help with, I am not worried about that, but only if it's wrong to choose a kid over a career if that does happen? I think I will finish uni but I am unmotivated to do so with or without the baby.