How do you DEAL WITH THIS!.
As some one with mental health (anxiety to the core) depression also. Do the very best for my children clean home. My kids are in classes and playgroups. I make sure there not affected by my anxiety at all. My mother on the other hand.. brings the worst out of me. She has only ever wanted my daughter she's never wanted anything to do with my Step child or youngest child. Now when mean she thinks nothings wrong with what she's doing I'm genuinely serious she thinks I'm crazy and I'm the one messing with
There heads. My son is nearly 3 he's now realising when my daughter goes to her nanas that she's gone and he cries his heart out and shouts for her and ask where they both are. That's heartbreaking to me😖 but all I get is " you wasn't bothered before" no I was bothered but
My son was poorly from 2 month old with sepsis. And the thought of my son staying out when he turned 1 after that traumatic experience of my son nearly dying wasn't on my agenda to be quite honest I got very obsessive over him and didn't or still haven't let anyone have my son. But I was always made to feel like my son not staying out was always my fault but my mum never ever bonded with him she was not bothered at all so that was another reason why I never let him stay out. So amongst not caring about him or coming to see him but always wanting my daughter and the fact I had pnd from my son nearly dying was why I never let anyone take care of him as I was scared I cheated death and got to keep him but if anyone had him then something would happen to him I was terrified but she never understood. She was just bothered about my daughter. Lost story short finally. I stopped my daughter staying she's asked for weeks and I've said no because my son understands now and it's not fair all I get is a bunch of abuse and " well you never complained before now your messing with her head and mine" but what about my other kids? It's not fair. I always feel pressured into letting her stay as she's always around my house so she tries making my daughter say " can I stay" so that I say no and my daughter cries. It's really taking a toll on my mental health and I feel like I just want to run awayðŸ˜
So so sorry about the long post I NEEDED this off my chest ðŸ˜ðŸ˜