My husband and I have separated . We have an 8 month old DD. First time parents . Together 8 years, married for 2.
DH says he wants time to himself to do things he wants to do, I’ve only asked him if he would like her every weekend (just daytime not night time), and he’s said he wants time to himself alongside work so doesn’t want her every single weekend, and I just don’t know how to make it work as I will be working 3 days a week and then having her on my days off as well as the days I’m working I’ll still have her before and after childcare , and at night . So I don’t see what to do. Does anyone have an example on how you made it work ? If I see it written down I might be able to formulate a plan more but my head is all jumbled . Alongside severe PND I can’t think straight .
Thank you. I appreciate any help or advise you could offer me .