my daugther was born with a sist on her side, she is now sixteen months old, and has grown into a tumer, the hospital have said it would be best for her to have it cut out. im so scared, i dont have any family or friends around me as have just moved to a new area how do i cope if things go wrong, what if she dosent wake up. i know it sounds selfish but i just feel like not turning up please please please help me be stong for my little girl