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Mopey 6 year old

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123ZYX · 13/04/2021 15:16

Does anyone have any suggestions for how I can help my 6 year old son?

When he's at home, he's constantly what my mum would call "mopey" - no interest in doing anything, gets grumpy easily, no energy. He won't play by himself at all and if I set something up for him to do with me, he'll play for a little while, but does the minimum - for example if I setup painting and join in, he'll do one painting.

He sleeps well, so shouldn't be tired, but acts like he's on,y two hours sleep.

He's an only child (his sister was stillborn when he was three, and we won't be trying again) and no cousins either so it's either play with us or play on his own.

When I take him to school, he's much more energetic and happy, so it seems to just be at home. Also, if I can get him out of the house to a park he's happier, but he always hates the idea of going out.

It's got to the point where I will plan ideas of things to do, but it's taking longer for me to have ideas, set things up and put things away than he actually spends playing.

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BunnyRuddington · 13/04/2021 18:03

So sorry to hear about your DD Thanks

Your DS does sound like hard work. Would he respond to some sort of schedule? Is he interested in something that he could practice like football/cricket skills?

123ZYX · 13/04/2021 19:32

I'm willing to try anything! I'll give it a go, thank you

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FATEdestiny · 13/04/2021 20:07

My 6yo DD has got very into Minecraft this year. It stemmed from the (millions) of minecraft YouTube videos which taught her how to build, mine and craft.

Is there a similar video game that your DS might be into? I get that screen time isn't brilliant, but given all the staying at home we've done this year, I suspect my 6yo would be very mopey without screens.

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Mincepiesallyearround · 13/04/2021 20:18

The no energy would worry me, have you had him checked out by the doctors? I’ve got a 6 yr old that doesn’t play with toys most boys his age love like Lego or trains etc or transformers but he likes to fiddle and tinker with things like snap circuits (we’ve got the beginners starter set), a 48 piece magic snake, board games, top grumps, he’s got a remote control robot he likes (terrorising the cats with). Mines the same, says he wants to paint so I get everything ready, then sploshes stuff about makes a mess on one painting and then wanders off. He’s better with a colouring book and a pot of pens which takes no time to get out.
Sorry about your daughter, that’s so sad.

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