We live 4 hours away from any members of our family. We do have a couple of friends around here, but they all have family close who babysit for them, so I feel like if I did ask them to babysit I would be imposing, as they don't need us to return the favour. Dh and I would love he occasional night out (once a month perhaps) but we are stumped for babysitters. We did have a nursery nurse from dd nursery, but she has moved. Tried asking at the nursery....no one else does it. I am aware of agencies, which I may try (although they are VERY expensive!)
What do other people do?? Should I try advertising?