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8 month sleep regression advice for our circumstances?

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TiredNewMum2020 · 09/03/2021 10:46

Sorry I know this is a really boring question and has been asked before but please can anyone advise me about my baby's sleep regression? Based on what we are doing could we be doing anything else?

He is 8mo the old and is teething badly, plus I imagine he's having the 8 mo sleep regression and / or a developmental leap (lots of talk / babble).

Normally he baths at 6.30 and bed by 7pm. Very regular daily routine and structure. Falls asleep straight away normally. Wakes up at 7.00am. Until recently he's had one or two night feeds but went straight back to sleep. Recently I've tried to up his milk intake during the day and he's not been hungry for milk at night but has still woken and had a bit. Naps about 1.5-2hrs over 2 day naps, always the same time in his cot (very occasionally in buggy for morning nap).

Last few days things have changed - bedtime still the same and he still falls asleep. However he is waking up around 11pm (when I go to bed) and is then awake for 2-3hrs or so. He's either crying (when put in cot) or babbling when held. Won't take milk. Constantly distressed. Practising a new scream sort of sound with his voice in his throat. Last night I finally rocked him to sleep in my arms after 2.5hrs as I was exhausted. He then slept through till morning. Tried calpol at 11pm but it didn't send him to sleep.

He is in a cotbed in our room as the spare room is currently a home office for DH wfh. DH works late so we can't see a way of moving DS until pandemic is over. That said, whilst DS still wakes up at night we'd rather not have to go to the next door room anyway...

What do you think? Am I doing it wrong / what can I do to help him through this?

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wimbler · 09/03/2021 11:07

sounds like he needs more daytime sleep and is overtired. I would say closer to 3 hours total nap is more suitable at 8 months. Other than that, try moving bedtime earlier by 30 mins to see if that helps, Overtiredness is a massive contributor to frequent night wakings and general unsettled sleep in little ones.

HopingforbabyD · 09/03/2021 11:19

I promise this ends!!! ❤️ I could've written this myself a month ago. My little boy is 10mo and we went through a stage of waking in the night, I'd feed him and everytime I tried to put him down he cried. This resulted in 2-3 hours of being on me even when I swore he was dead to the world nope. What I found helped was milk milk and more milk, he uses this as comfort so was the only way it helped me. I slowly slowly lowered him down and held him in the cot until he rolled over and it was safe to leave 😄 keeping things quiet also helped us and just being in the moment of accepting this is just a phase. It's now shifted over to day time naps and I'm finding I'm just having to try new things and just going with my babies lead. I promise it all falls back into place, we're back to no feeds in the night, no fighting me to go to sleep at bedtime it's all just a big stage for them I think atm.
You're doing absolutely nothing wrong but what I would say is just stick with it, stick with your routine and it'll be over before you know it (even tho it's painfully hard 🤦🏻‍♀️) sending hugs & solidarity xx

TiredNewMum2020 · 09/03/2021 15:12

Thanks @HopingforbabyD he won't take milk as I had been weaning him off night feeds and he's tanked up during the day, and also I think because of the teething. It's so out of character this far so I'm convinced it's either teething, or leap and hopefully a quick phase!!!

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HopingforbabyD · 09/03/2021 16:05

@TiredNewMum2020 I'd definitely say a mixture of both and they go through a wonderful sleep regression from 9-12 months 🙈 keep doing what you're doing 💕 currently out walking with my boy fighting his nap 🤦🏻‍♀️😂 xx

Rubiales678 · 10/03/2021 21:05

I am also going through a similar with my almost 9 month old! He's always been a bad sleeper anyway I never thought it would get worse! At the moment he wakes up every 40 minutes between 8- 11pm then I give in and bring him into our bed. He doesn't even settle there sometimes and cries which is not like him. He's just finished a bad bout of teething so it's not that, I think it's a leap/sleep regression as he learnt to crawl this week and he is eating more. Let's hope they don't last too long!!

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