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Baby wakes up screaming

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Nova324 · 15/02/2021 13:22

My Baby is 10 months and goes down for night time sleep fine. looks so peaceful and having a really great sleep and then 30 minutes later eyes open for 1 second and the screaming starts. i cant work out why this is happening. every night without fail after 30 minutes.
I've tried so many different things but nothing seems to make a difference. it could then take another half and hour or more to get baby back over again and then its not for very long until crying again. i just dont know what else to try and hate seeing the great sleep interrupted. also I'm then getting zero time to myself going up and down all night

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FizzingWhizzbee123 · 15/02/2021 13:39

What’s the gap between the last nap and bedtime? Sounds like classic overtiredness.

Lenny1987 · 15/02/2021 13:42

I'm in exactly the same boat with my 6 month old!

Nova324 · 15/02/2021 13:55

@FizzingWhizzbee123 last nap finishes around 3pm give or take and i aim for bedtime between 7.30 and 8. last night i tried taking her up for 7 but then it took her until about 7.45 to actually fall asleep. seems like it takes her longer to fall asleep the earlier i take her up

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Nova324 · 15/02/2021 13:56

@Lenny1987 yes this has been going on for quite some time and it really wrecks me because i just want to know what's wrong! I mean if she was moving through sleep cycles that's fair enough but I dont know why with the screaming!

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FizzingWhizzbee123 · 15/02/2021 14:02

Assuming she’s on 2 naps a day, I’d aim for the 2/3/4 wake window approach.

Something like
7am awake
9am 1 hr nap
10-1 awake
1pm 2 hr nap
3-7pm awake
7pm bed

I’d stick with trying for a 4hr wake window after the last nap, so asleep by 7. At a push, asleep by 7.30 latest but I’d be aiming for 7. So actually asleep by 7, not going into bed. Trying putting her down at 6.45. Try it for a week and see if it helps.

Lenny1987 · 15/02/2021 16:09

@Nova324 yes I feel exactly the same. I did read somewhere they are less likely to wake screaming if they go to sleep themselves, though I have tried this and it has made no difference. I'm following with interest if anyone has any suggestions.

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