hi, im separated from the kids dad son15 and daughter 13, im with a man and my daughter does not get on with him, he also has his opinion on her too and he doesn't agree with her. I often try and be referee when they are having a debate and I can feel it getting out of hand. then today my daughter said she wanted to go to school as I am a key worker I aid but u don't need to go she said I want to,my boyfriend then said that's ridiculous they then argued again, she says he gets away with things so why cant she, and she says the same. im in constant tears I cant keep either of them happy, I know my daughter is going to leave and live with her dad when she leaves school and I wont see her again. what can I do? they don't like doing things together ive tried that, im constantly treading on egg shells. can anyone help?