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espressoontap · 25/01/2021 18:43

Different ethnicities and cultures / diversities for children?

My four year old DS came home from nursery today and said someone was 'brown and smelly', I was mortified and explained it was a horrible thing to say and quite upsetting. He said he didn't say it to this child just that two other boys had said it to him. I explained that there are lots of people on the planet and we may look different but we are the same. I then went on to say how Black Panther is 'brown' and said isn't he a superhero.

We live in a rural village which is predominantly white so he has not had chance to meet other people from different cultures. I'm sorry if I sound stupid / naive - I just want to make sure I get this right with him as I don't want him saying this again. I also want to use the correct terminology.

Is there another way to explain it to him?

Thank you.

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Heybeendyingtomeetyou · 25/01/2021 19:29

Would it be worth mentioning it to nursery so that the other boys get read a book too? How awful for children that age to be thinking things like that Sad

There are reviews about some books here, they start age 2+ but scroll down for 4+ Books
www.madeformums.com/reviews/books-to-teach-children-about-race-and-diversity/

espressoontap · 25/01/2021 20:59

I might call them actually - that's a good point.

I explained to him that I was so sad he said it and it's never ok to say things like that because we are all humans and if I was sad imagine what this person felt. I just pray he is right when he says he didn't say anything to this child and it was the others, even though I know that's still horrible, too.

Thank you for the link, I will have a look.

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