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Please can you give advice about my 6mo baby?

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ComeOn2021 · 25/01/2021 10:13

Looking for advice from those with babies older than 7 months about the changes I'm seeing in my 6.5 month old baby boy.

His behaviour has very suddenly changed over the past week or so. He is suddenly very cranky, grumpy and is only really smiley for the first wake up of the day bless him. He's weaning and has gone from happily trying food (picking up finger food and allowing me to spoon feed purée) to not wanting anything, completely refusing to be spoon fed etc. He wants to hold the spoon which I encourage but then can't feed himself and gets increasingly frustrated and cross. To compound matters he suddenly doesn't want his bottle (he is FF) and the only time he feeds easily is once during the night when he's half asleep and just before I go to bed.
During the day his bottle feeds are a battle which I obviously don't want to happen so rather than force him I just let it pass but then I worry that he's not had milk or food for hours. It's a vicious circle because then he is hungry which makes him angrier, but I can't force feed him!

I've also noticed he seems generally "on edge" as it were, all through the day, eg ready to cry at a moments notice unless you can distract him with a toy or get him to laugh momentarily. It feels like you are walking on eggshells all the time and it feels more like toddler behaviour.

Bless him I just want him to be happy and well fed. Luckily he is massive (top percentile) so I'm not too worried about his weight but obviously I want him to feed.

No obvious signs of teeth yet but I know this could be teething or growth spurt or something. Before 6 months he was the most happy cheerful boy who only ever cried for a specific reason such as hunger / waiting for his bottle to be ready. Am I doing something wrong or is this normal? Will his behaviour change? How can I help him?!

No health visitor appointments any more due to the pandemic and no-one else I can ask. Please give me your wisdom!! Thank you!

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Hopefulmama123 · 25/01/2021 10:42

I'm sure you are doing amazing mumma. I have an 8 month old and they seem to go through sporadic patch's of moodiness/ love food/ hate food etc

I would try not to worry, if it lasts longer than a couple of weeks perhaps take him to the doctor but otherwise I would say it's completely normal, it's probably just a developmental leap.

Is he getting enough sleep?
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Pinkflipflop85 · 25/01/2021 12:28

Sounds like mine every time she has teeth starting to rumble.

Seeline · 25/01/2021 12:33

Does sound a lot like teeth. HAve you tried giving some calpol to see if it makes any difference?

Re feeding - use two spoons, one each.

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onetwothreeadventure · 25/01/2021 12:36

Sounds like teeth to me too. My youngest is hugely affected by teeth and goes through what you described.

devildeepbluesea · 25/01/2021 12:38

I think teeth too.

Also, DD would often be very unsettled and grumpy just before a developmental leap.

mindutopia · 25/01/2021 13:09

It could be teething or just tummy discomfort from starting solids, or likely a combination of both. Unfortunately, very normal at this time. Just keep doing what you're doing and hopefully it will pass.

ComeOn2021 · 25/01/2021 13:50

Thanks for the reassurance everybody 💕 I forgot to say that his sleep is really good, thankfully! So I don't think it's general over tiredness.

Ok yes, so it sounds like this could be teething. Oh well, I hope things improve soon!!

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Thatwentbadly · 25/01/2021 15:02

I have a 4 year old and 1.5 year old and both of mine were like this. I have to say after the new born he’ll with my first, I found 6 months the most tricky time.

sunlightbuttons · 25/01/2021 15:05

Mine did exactly the same around this time, it was stressful. Especially the milk refusal. It did pass very quickly, I think within a week.

SnuggyBuggy · 25/01/2021 15:06

I swear mine teethed with the first set for ages, then the others seemed to come through quicker.

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