Split from ex when Pg with DD 6 due to coercive control and gaslighting. She sometimes goes for the weekend depending on whether her dad is ' busy'. Came back this evening. I said "what's happened to her hair?! - Oh she cut it- WHAT??!!". ( Didn't want to cause a scene on doorstep - not inviting him in re covid and he never answers phone / messages. Transpires he leaves her to own devices whilst plays downstairs on phone. She said she'd taken scissors up to the attic! Further information reveals she's often left to do whatever she likes - he never takes her out or plays with her. ( Even pre covid ). He bought her a tablet for Christmas ( but he's lost the charger!)- I gave her a game to take a few weeks ago but ( it's lost apparently). Don't stop me going to my dad's she says ( I've told her I never said I would so dint know why she thinks that )but what can I do. Am livid.