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Biting toddler - pls help!

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firsttimemumma5 · 13/01/2021 10:36

My daughter is one & keeps biting me.

When she wants attention (even if I’m briefly doing something else), when she is bored, when she gets upset, when she gets excited, even when she’s breastfeeding (ouch!!). She bites so hard it actually bruises me (she has both top and bottom teeth) and she clamps down so hard that I can’t get her off.

I’ve tried just putting her down and ignoring it (no negative or positive attention) whilst saying “no bitey, poor mummy” and rubbing wherever she has bitten, but that doesn’t seem to be working and it’s been a few weeks. I’ve tried ignoring it completely but she just bites me more. I’ve tried telling her off, but I only think that scares her and doesn’t seem to have any affect.

She’s now bitten other people (my sister & even the dog, who is very patient & didn’t mind - I took her away immediately). I just don’t know what to do. It’s like she actually enjoys hurting me (even though I think she just likes the reaction?).

I’m a single parent so there’s not much outside help with her at all, so need advice how to cope alone as I don’t have a partner to help. Just exhausted of being constantly bitten (and screamed at lol). Thanks x

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Thatwentbadly · 13/01/2021 13:56

It can be caused by teething.

niclw · 13/01/2021 18:23

A fellow single parent here. My DS (now 2) used to bite me. Also when he didn't have my attention. Thankfully he has grown out of it and has starting licking my clothes instead 🤦‍♀️. Unfortunately at 1 they don't have the ability to understand so it's a case of just being consistent. I used to say "No. That hurts Mummy. Mummy is sad." I would then put a sad face on. Eventually he started to understand and it stopped. Perseverance and consistency. Your toddler will eventually get there. 💐

Ohalrightthen · 13/01/2021 19:16

You can't really get them to stop at that age, you just have to discourage, and ride it out.

I found that DD was much more bitey when teething, and so gave her lots of stuff to gnaw on! Wooden spoon was a firm fave.

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