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Is it too early to start potty-training?

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NappyChange · 21/10/2007 20:02

When are you meant to start? My DD is 15 months old and can't even walk yet (separate issue but is this reallllly late??) but someone said it is a good thing to get them used to the potty. IE - encouraging - not forcing them - on the pot before bathtime and in the morning. Thoughts please??????????

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Hulababy · 21/10/2007 20:06

No harm in having a potty around so she gets used to it. Same for letting DD see you and Dh use the toilet too.

As for actual potty training IMO it is too young. You need the little one to be able to get tot he potty, at least help remove lower clothes and to understand the whole process.

Oh, and lots of babies aren't walkig at 15 months - search MN and it will put your mind at rest on that issue.

NAB3 · 21/10/2007 20:07

15 months is v young to start potty training imo. My DD asked from 17 months but due to being pg and then having 3 under 5 she was dry just before she was 2 after 3 half hearted (mine) attempts.

tassisssss · 21/10/2007 20:09

up to you, but it wouldn't even cross my mind to try a 15 month old on a potty!

and no, 15 months isn't overly late to start walking!

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NappyChange · 21/10/2007 20:09

Yes, I agree 15 months is too young but do think it is a good idea to have the po "around" and letting her see us on the loo.

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kindersurprise · 21/10/2007 20:41

Babies of 15 months are not yet physically able to be potty trained (yes, I am sure there are exceptions, but generally that is true). From around 18 months they tend to take an interest but it can be later than that.

My DD was 20 months old the first time she went on the toilet (said herself she wanted to go) but was not off nappies till she was just over 2yo. My DS is only just potty trained and is 3.4yo.

insywinsyspider · 21/10/2007 21:04

ds is 16 mo and uses a potty - this question comes up all the time, if you want to give the potty a go just remember its not 'training' its 'conditioning' as it you are getting them used to the idea that you don't poo in your pants, in the same way I'm sure you encouraged your,say,9 mo old to stand even though you knew it would be a while till they did it on their own.

we first put ds on at 10 mo (we use washables nappies so it was great to catch a few rather than put poo in my washing machine) now he askes for the potty (baby signing, he's not talking yet) and its hit and miss but I rarely have a pooey nappy which is great and we get most wee's

children aren't trained till they can properly ask for the potty and can at least get their pants down themselves but I don't think that practising now will do any harm

we sit ds on and he has a book or toys to keep him entertained (he makes me laugh by bringing me a book when I'm on the loo clearly that might be a bad habit we've taught him!) he only stays on for max 5 mins, if he goes great if not no problem, thats what nappies are for

I know people on here have said early potty 'training' attempts can lead to later regression which is why I think you don't push it just introduce the idea, like I say we've been putting ds on for 6 months and he's not upset by it - fingers crossed it continues!

phew... sorry that was a long post! good luck with it if you decide to give it a go but don't feel pressured into doing it if it doesn't feel right for you and dd just because someone said you should be doing it

hth x

ps the baby whisperer has a chapter on potty training starting around 9 mo which has some really helpful tips

BabiesEverywhere · 22/10/2007 10:04

Though regression is commonly quoted as a problem related to early potty learning there is no research to prove this, nor have I heard a mother of an early pottied child mention any regression.

The only proven issues with potty learning are linked to late use of potties, so it makes sense to have a potty around the house from a minimum of 18 months old...just for the child to look at, play with and maybe use.

Babies are capable of bladder control froma very young age. My own DD is dry and clean on the whole at 14 months old. She signals for me to help her use the big toilet or is capable of using the potty on her own (if naked)

You will do no harm by having a potty around and popping you child on for a minute at regular times (after naps, after meals etc) If your DD arches her back or shows another sign of distress, just remove her and try another time. At 15 months you could introduce a BSL sign for toilet to your child and in that way she could tell you when/if she would like be carried to the potty/toilet.

HTH

NappyChange · 24/10/2007 13:52

All very helpful. I think I confused matters by mentioning potty TRAINING. I have no intention of training her at this stage - she can't walk or talk so getting herself on the po quick enough would be an issue. However, I will definitely get one and keep it around and try her on it before bathtime etc without any pressure at all. Lastly - can anyone recommend a good potty or are they all much the same. Saw the very basic ones this morning and they look so uncomfortable. Saying that, I dont fancy the idea of ones that play music.

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