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Nearly 3 year old sleep regression

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charley39 · 04/11/2020 01:33

Currently lying next to my DS trying to get him back to sleep. Looking for some similar stories or advice? DS had always been difficult to get to bed needing to be held etc until the start of lockdown in March we finally cracked it and got into a great routine of putting him in his cot and being able to walk away straight after whilst he fell asleep happily. However since the clocks have gone back I don’t know what on earth has gone wrong. He is teething atm so this could potentially be all it is but it’s never been such an extreme effect on bedtime before. Every night he now needs me to sit next to him and stroke his head in order to fall asleep which I don’t mind doing however I now feel it is affecting him at night as he’s now up most of the night needing me back by his side. He’s happy if I’m just sat next to him or laying on the floor next to him but he can be fast asleep I’ll leave the room and 20mins to an hour later he’s awake crying and we start the process again. The other night in fact I was up doing this for 6 hours straight until he finally gave in and had a 2 hour sleep. I have tried just saying I need to go to the toilet quick etc to try and leave him but nothing works. It’s really affecting him during the day now as he’s so tired and will refuse all naps aswell even if he’s been up half the night. Just wondering if anyone else has been through the same and has some advice??

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Thatwentbadly · 05/11/2020 12:50

Perhaps he needs more space than a cot.

charley39 · 05/11/2020 13:26

So yesterday morning he actually woke up after a dreadful sleep and when I asked why he was so sad in the night he pointed to the cot side closest to the wall and said gruffalo so I think it’s now the case he’s more scared rather than anything else which would explain why he feels the need to have someone with him

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messy123 · 07/11/2020 13:47

How old is your DS? My DD is 2.11 and her sleep seems to be erratic at the moment, taking ages to go to sleep and a couple of wake ups overnight and trying to climb into my bed.

In March her sleep went up the wall for a while and it's like she knows what's going on and is doing it again 🤦😂

Just letting you know you aren't alone. Have you not tried putting him in a bed yet?

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charley39 · 07/11/2020 17:18

He’s 2years 9 months.
No haven’t tried the bed yet as he’s never climbed out of the cot and tbh we got so complacent with him having good nights sleep I wasn’t going to rock the boat. When he goes to a bed it will just be the cot side coming off so not a huge difference.
I’ve read there is a 3 year regression which does sound very similar.

Let’s hope this doesn’t last too long!

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