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cherrytree975 · 21/10/2020 17:10

My baby was born in early lockdown and is now 6.5 months. Initially I was planning to go along to lots of baby classes as soon as they started up again, which some in my area now have.

However, after trying a couple of different ones I've found that I really dislike them. I hate having to wear a mask to play with my child for one thing, and I find that social distancing makes it harder to interact with other mums.

There was also a list of Covid-related rules as long as my arm for one of the classes I went to - and whilst I totally understand this is necessary to keep everybody safe, it just makes the whole experience quite unenjoyable IMO.

In addition, my baby seems to scream and cry quite a lot compared with everyone else's calm and happy DC, which I find very stressful in a class setting.

However, whilst I'd rather not go to any classes at all, I worry that I'm disadvantaging my baby socially by avoiding them. Do babies benefit from other babies' company by 6.5 months and should I force myself to attend? Or does it not really matter at this age?

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NerrSnerr · 24/10/2020 21:51

At that age the groups are more for the parents than the child. I benefited from them massively as I moved to the area when heavily pregnant and didn't know anyone so I made friends (I still have 6 years on). If you don't think you'll benefit from them I wouldn't go until your child is older and you can choose something you think they'll enjoy.

MasksGlovesSoapScrubs · 24/10/2020 21:57

We're in tier 1 and our baby classes haven't even opened back up yet.
We used to go but stopped in March and DS was 9 months then and hasn't been to one since 🤷🏻‍♀️.

doireallyneedaname · 25/10/2020 09:09

I’ve been told the classes are really more for the mums at that age - all babies need are their parents at the stage, which is a good thing because I haven’t done a single class.

I’m not a “mumsy” type and for that reason I didn’t do any antenatal classes either. With those I was again told that they were useful to meet other expectant mums!

My baby is going through a bit of separation anxiety now he’s 8 months and when I suggested it could be due to lockdown and lack of socialising I was firmly told it was an absolute non issue!

Don’t even worry about it, enjoy your time with baby.

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