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Best & Worst Thing About Being a Parent

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EternalOptimist7 · 19/10/2020 14:43

DD is adopted so the best thing for me is knowing we are giving her a better life. The worst thing at the moment is dealing with hormones kicking in. And the worry!

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notanotheronepleasee · 19/10/2020 14:49

That's really lovely OP. Mine are young so worst thing is the 3am wake up everyday, but best thing is the comfort that they can only get from a cuddle with me

EternalOptimist7 · 19/10/2020 16:08

Anyone else?

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nibdedibble · 19/10/2020 16:12

Worst: I overthink and worry a lot (was poorly parented)

Best: the laughs. Kids are gorgeous funny things.

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cherrytree975 · 19/10/2020 16:15

I have a 6.5 mo DD.

Best: when she laughs and smiles.

Worst: the sleep deprivation - without a doubt!

AriettyHomily · 19/10/2020 16:18

Worst - loss of spontaneity and sleep

Best - I love them
More than I ever though I could

Never0000 · 19/10/2020 16:21

Worst: all the judgement and misinformation going around in the word of parenting

Best: how funny the children are, how much I love to spend time with them Smile

Never0000 · 19/10/2020 16:21

And how much you grow as a person yourself

Disappointedkoala · 19/10/2020 16:45

Worst: lack of sleep
Best: the way they put their little hand in yours.

Nowifi · 19/10/2020 17:55

Worst - her behaviour

Best - the fact that she will grow up one day and won't need me so much Grin

Going through a hard time at the moment, can you tell? Grin

notanotheronepleasee · 19/10/2020 18:13

@Nowifi haha, I understand!

Tobebythesea · 19/10/2020 23:40

Worst- sleep deprivation/early morning wakings. Weekends/holidays/bank holidays are no longer a break.

Best- love like nothing I have ever experienced. Laughter every day and hugs.

Ohalrightthen · 20/10/2020 08:29

Worst - the fear

Best - literally everything else. I took my 11m DD out for lunch the other day - how is it possible that someone who can't talk can genuinely be an excellent date!?

FizzingWhizzbee123 · 20/10/2020 09:59

Worst - exhaustion, tantrums, lack of personal time and space

Best - seeing his face light up when I walk in the door. No one else is ever that genuinely happy to see me! The cuddles, the kisses, that I never knew I could love someone so hard that I thought my heart might actually burst. The humour, the smiles. There’s loads of amazing parts.

doireallyneedaname · 20/10/2020 10:08

Worst is being unable to get a solid nights sleep & having to have eyes in the back of your head when they start getting on the move. Also in the worst category is when they are sick, especially as a first time mum, the worry is unlike anything else.

Best is watching them learn, and the love you feel from them when they stare into your eyes and give you a big smile.

messy123 · 07/11/2020 14:16

Worst: sleep deprivation and being woken up in the night. Also this might just be mine but lack of toilet breaks and showers in peace 😂

Best: The way they develop and the funny things that they say ...and the cuddles.

lazylinguist · 07/11/2020 14:21

Best: my children (12 and 15) are, and have always been, very good company. They are articulate, hilarious and fun to spend time with.

Worst: the constant worry about whether we are striking the right balance parenting-wise. Also the worry about what they don't tell you, especially as teens.

Cattenberg · 07/11/2020 14:27

Worst: the sleep deprivation of the newborn stage

Best: being frequently surprised by the new things she can do, funny things she says, and her random leaps of imagination

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