Hi, this is my first post and its really a call for help and support. My husband suffers from Rhumatoid arthritis to such an extent that he now uses a wheelchair when outside and can't hold a pen well enough to write his signature. My son who is 10 years old has learning difficulties and get 1 to 1 support for 15 hours a week paid for by the council, although the school gives him nearly permenant 1 to 1 support. He is a delightful child, very loving, but he takes everything literaly, lots of other problems, but no major physical ones. We get Full DLA Mobility/care for my husband, but we have been knocked down from full DLA care & mobility for my son to only low rate mobility because his old school said that he didn't need any extra care (they also were providing him with 30 hours a week of 1 to 1 ). I believe we have all the financial help we can get, but I am the one who needs caring for now. Does anybody know of clubs etc. that can help me cope. ( I am also on mild anti-depressants to keep me on an even keel).