Hoping this is normal but it’s starting to get me down! My 23mo goes to his grandparents a day a week when I’m working, and sometimes overnights. He is SO delightful for them, as they keep telling me- happy, fun, and does what they ask. With us it’s a different story- we get tantrums, strops, head banging- all the usual two year old stuff. But what gets me down is that I’m almost not believed by outsiders! He is a really chilled out kid when we’re elsewhere, and I’m starting to feel like a crap mum. I feel crap because he won’t behave for me, and also because if he’s this ‘easy’ child that everyone tells me he is, why am I finding it so hard?!